As parents, we all want what's best for our children. We dream of their happiness, their success, and their well-being. We try to protect and nurture them to ensure they grow up in a safe and supportive environment. But there are times when societal pressures and deeply ingrained norms cloud our judgment, leading us down a dangerous path. One such dangerous path that plagues our society and children's lives is forced marriage, which we must address with empathy and understanding. 
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Forced marriage is an unfortunate reality in many parts of the world, including India. According to Exodus Road, a non-profit organization that works on fighting modern-day slavery, as of 2022, 650 million girls and women are being forced to marry.   
Let us be clear about what forced marriage means 
Forced marriage is when one or both parties are married without their free and full consent. No individual, regardless of their age, gender, or circumstances, should ever be coerced into a marriage they do not desire. 
This problem has persisted for generations in India, deeply rooted in cultural and social norms prioritizing family honour and social status. The fear of societal judgment, the pressure to maintain traditions, and the desire to preserve family reputation make some parents and religious leaders orchestrate these unions secretly.  
It is crucial for us to recognize that this practice is not only morally wrong but also illegal. 
In the context of forced marriages, girls and women are disproportionately affected. They are the ones who face the brunt of the consequences. Forced into a life they did not choose, they often suffer from domestic violence, abuse, and social ostracization. The dream of education, career, and personal growth may be shattered as they are confined to a life they never wanted. 
It is disheartening to think that in the 21st century, such practices still exist. However, we must not lose hope. There is a silver lining amidst this darkness.  
In recent years, the Indian government has taken significant strides to combat forced marriage. Legal measures have been put in place to protect potential victims and ensure that those responsible for forcing others into marriage face consequences. 
As parents, we have a crucial role in this fight against forced marriage.  
It starts with open communication within our families. We must listen to our children, understand their dreams, and respect their choices. Let us create an environment where they feel safe and supported and can freely express their desires and aspirations. 
Moreover, we need to educate ourselves and others about the legal rights of individuals, especially the youth, to protect them from forced marriage. No one should ever feel trapped and powerless. Knowledge is power, and understanding the laws and support systems available can help our children make informed decisions. 
As we strive for a society free from forced marriages, we must remember that empathy is essential.  
Some parents may have been brought up in environments where such practices were considered acceptable. Breaking away from tradition can be difficult, but it is necessary for progress. Let us support each other in this journey, acknowledging the challenges but working together to build a brighter, more compassionate future. 
Nobody has the right to force someone into a life they don't want. As parents, let us stand against forced marriage, protecting our children and empowering them to live their chosen lives. Let us lead with love, understanding, and empathy to break the chains of this harmful practice and create a society where every individual's voice is heard and respected.  
 
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