We all yearn for a sense of togetherness that transcends the artificial boundaries imposed by the world. Yet, finding forums that foster unity, work towards a common cause, and enable meaningful change can be challenging. Social work is pivotal in shaping the transformation we aspire to witness in our surroundings. Reflecting on a poignant quote by Mother Teresa, "Intense love does not measure, it just gives," I embarked on a quest to be part of a community that embodied this sentiment, tirelessly extending love and compassion to all, irrespective of differences that threaten our shared fabric of humanity. This led me on a journey to seek involvement in such organizations. 
 
From a young age, I deeply admired NGOs and their extraordinary efforts to address critical issues. However, during my teenage years, conversations around volunteering or social work were discouraged due to the opposition faced by these organizations from individuals in positions of power. Despite this, my rebellious spirit ignited as I entered college, fueling my curiosity about social work and its potential to transform the world around me radically. 
 
Inspired by the transformative power of education, I conceived the idea of volunteering for an NGO dedicated to children's education. This cause resonated deeply with me. Education, undoubtedly, represents the most effective means of breaking the cycles of poverty and oppression, enabling personal and professional growth. In my role, I assisted children in developing essential soft skills and equipping them for future professional endeavours. What thrilled me most was healthy debate and comprehensive training, empowering us as catalysts for children's growth and enhancing their educational experiences. Immersed in a community of like-minded individuals, I witnessed firsthand the profound impact that organized social work can bring. 
 
Yet, after several fulfilling months with the organization, I realized that no NGO is exempt from flaws in execution and management. Differences in opinion regarding the organization's operations persisted, rooted in deeply ingrained hierarchies that influenced every decision and act. With a heavy heart, I observed a prevalent phenomenon known as the saviour complex, often afflicting individuals with privilege. This complex, also referred to as the white knight syndrome, manifests when individuals derive satisfaction from helping others, believing it to be their duty to assist those around them and sacrificing their interests for the betterment of others. However, the saviour complex extends beyond mere altruism. It manifests in attempts to control the lives of others, fostering a sense of moral superiority and an obsession with fixing others, thereby dictating how they should live. 
 
My realization of the insensitivity behind the saviour complex deepened when a donor visited homes ravaged by floods. While providing aid to the affected individuals, the donor insisted that volunteers capture photos and videos, callously disregarding the trauma endured by the survivors. This incident compelled me to reflect on my privilege and acknowledge that even well-intentioned NGOs can sometimes perpetuate harm instead of fostering good. 
These revelations about the flaws within NGOs and the insidious nature of the saviour complex forced me to reevaluate my understanding of social work. I began to unlearn the notion that effecting change in society requires one to be part of an NGO or community. Instead, I recognized the need to shed the privilege of perceiving myself as a saviour and, instead, embrace the role of a comrade, advocating for collective growth and serving as a conduit for uplifting society. 
  
Undoubtedly, numerous NGOs have made commendable contributions, and I deeply respect their endeavours. However, as time passed, I comprehended the imperative for organizations to dismantle oppressive hierarchies, unlearn the saviour complex, and strive to understand intersectionality. 
 
The truth is we need not always rely on collectives to better society. Within each individual lies the seed of compassion, capable of making the world slightly better. Let us not wait for a community to embark on this journey with us. We can begin by infusing our lives with meaningful moments of compassion, extending a helping hand to those in need, and becoming living examples for others to follow. 
 
In conclusion, the path to transformative change begins with embracing compassion on an individual level. While acknowledging the value of collective efforts, we must also recognize the potential for harm and the need for introspection within NGOs. By unlearning the saviour complex and cultivating intersectional understanding, we can unlock the power of compassion and contribute to a more inclusive and empathetic world. 
 
 
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